Monday, December 22, 2014

...a well-worn path....

I had an epiphany today while I was driving about doing 101 things
that must be done before Christmas.
I was thinking how its the fourth Christmas since the 
earthquakes began and how most of the time
it seems pretty normal now.

The first Christmas it was like you walked in the footsteps of the Christmas before,
you knew what you were doing and when you did it,
and you knew how it felt when the earthquake struck.
Every day of the Christmas season it was like living it again.

The second Christmas, you remembered,
but it wasn't the only thing you were thinking.
Life was beginning to carry on.

And now the memories are like a well worn path,
it's there in the background, but it's not something that fills your mind,
it's more of a backdrop to life.

We live in a city filled with space,
and amazing art. Lots of grass and lots of carparks!
We live in a city where every second person is a tradesperson,
and the bars are full of Irishmen who come for work.

Most of the time, we probably don't even notice 
as we go about our daily lives. 
No longer are we stepping carefully in the footsteps of the day before,
or the month before, or the year before.
It's just how it is here.

Long after everyone else has forgotten that we lived through this disaster,
while the rest of the world imagines that life has returned to normal,
we live in a city that has had the heart torn out of it,
but we live with grace and style.

We go about our daily life bolstered by the lessons we learned
as we endured 1000s of aftershocks,
as we queued for clean water for months,
and as we watched our city be demolished over years.

 This Christmas, I'm so grateful that our family can celebrate together,
that we have not only survived the last four years,
but that we have grown and changed as well.

I'm actually grateful for that well-worn path,
the things that we remember (we can't forget them)
the things that didn't kill us, but did actually make us stronger.

I'd never in a million years chose to live through a natural disaster like this,
but seeing as what we have, I'm glad to live it with my fellow Christchurch friends
and to have the shared experience and lessons
to take through the rest of our lives.

(All the photos in this post were taken by the lovely Roz this weekend
and used with her permission)


  1. xxx love love love to you Deb xxx

  2. I think that in this day and age of CGI where a disaster happens in a film and a place is rebuilt within weeks or at a push within months you forget that in reality it takes many many years to achieve the same thing in real life. I have just told my Hubby that it is over 4 years ago now and he was amazed that it was so long ago - I am sure it doesn't feel so long to you and your family and friends.

    I just wanted to send Christmas wishes and good tidings to you and I sincerley hope that Christchurch continues to grow at a steady pace.


  3. I day dreamed about moving down and making a difference somehow. Yeah right!!!!!! But then I woke up this morning and thought it felt real, like we had plans to move and I had to quickly get started on how I could help... Then it dawned on me it was all in my head. My heart goes out to all in Christchurch and I hope your friends aren't living in a caravan NEXT Christmas!!!

  4. You have reached the new "normal". Congratulations!

  5. Another thought provoking post. The art work around CHristchurch is amazing! Wishing you a Merry Cheery Christmas and a creative New Year! P.S I hope your hip is on the mend.

  6. I love your photos Deb, as always they are so "telling". I was in Christchurch last week and I can't believe what the centre of the city looks like even after 4yrs. I was devastated by the empty spaces, and the destroyed buildings, sooo sad to see.
    But the people are so amazing adapting and trying to get on with their lives as best they can. I enjoy your blog and wish you and your family a happy and peaceful Christmas.

  7. The photos are beautiful, such a contrast between the beautiful art and ruins. I also am amazed the earthquake was 4 years ago, it doesn't seem that long ago to me. I hope you all have a wonderful Christmas and a very happy New Year, enjoy your camping holiday!


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